Is she blogging now?

All I hear about lately is, blog this and blog that! So, I began reading a blog that my friend posted today. It's not as bad as I thought it was. It's just a cluster fuck of thoughts thrown out there for people to read, discuss and comment on. Pretty straight forward, right??

Well, here I am... I got sucked into the blogging obis. If I bore you just click that little "X" on the top right of this page, it's that simple. :)

One of the things on my mind today has been on my mind quite a bit lately and it's time to let it out! It's how I feel about so many females that are with men or that chase men that are selfish and inconsiderate of anyone's feelings but their own! I understand "Love is blind" but... How can you even begin to love someone that treats you this way? Some of the females that I know and some that I am very close to tend to throw themselves at men and end up hurt in the end. They wonder why these men walk all over them... Well my dear, if you lay yourself down, they are going to walk all over you, it's that simple. I'm not a man so I don't know for sure but wouldn't you think a man would want a strong, independent woman that knows what she wants and won't take any shit from anyone?! I mean, if I were a guy, that's what I would go for. That's what I look for in a man, anyway. Someone that is strong and independent, has a car, career, money, brains and above all things a soft, gentle, loving side.

So, now that I have gone completely off track, let me back my train up... Why do some females settle for less? I mean, I have done that twice in my life. I have settled for a man that didn't give me his all, didn't care for me the way I cared for him and lied to my face about his feelings.

I have also dated a guy that thought it was ok to abuse me in more ways than one and cheat on me, right under my nose!!... BUT, after being in relationSHITS like that, I learned to know the difference between an asshole and an amazing man. So I wonder, after watching the same females get screwed over time and time again... when will they learn? What will it take? Why do they continue to ask for my advice, pretend to listen and then do the total opposite of what I suggest? Is my advice that bad? Is it that hard to do what's best for you in the long run? Are you just so far gone that there is no helping you? Whatever it is... I really hope that one day, women will care more about themselves and their bodies. That is one thing I can honestly say, I have never given myself to a man that I didn't love. Why women choose to sleep with whoever, whenever beats the hell out of me! God gave you one body and one life. Respect it. If you don't, nobody else will either.

All I'm saying is... I know a lot of beautiful ladies that I care about very much. I hate that I have to sit back and watch them get used, walked on and above all things, disrespected. If you are offended by this in any way... you are probably one of the ladies I am talking about. I love you, smarten up. I shouldn't care more about your life than you do.